John, Bobs brother, and his partner Jean arrived yesterday with Maddie, Jeans grandchild - so with Ziggy (the missing brother Phils widow) we tipped off to Couiza in the rain - had an excellent light show :) and far too much food. todays weather is keeping us guessing. Sunshine at the moment.
- continuing where www.tilling-sur-aude.blogspot.com left off, with gossip and updates from a small French town
May 12, 2026
family fest
John, Bobs brother, and his partner Jean arrived yesterday with Maddie, Jeans grandchild - so with Ziggy (the missing brother Phils widow) we tipped off to Couiza in the rain - had an excellent light show :) and far too much food. todays weather is keeping us guessing. Sunshine at the moment.
May 8, 2026
bye bye for the moment
We all meet again in September at the Metaphorum conference in Manchester UK. We were entertained by many things last night, but this song may have won the round -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BDXKO7-KC0&list=RD4BDXKO7-KC0&start_radio=1Stafford Beer
May 5, 2026
Later, in the bar...
Garrick Filewood, Angela Espinosa and John Walker have been whirlwinding round Europe filming a movie about my papa Stafford, who was born 100 years ago this year. They are staying here for a few days.
Our Gracie is already staying here and is not fazed by cybernetics; Fanny and Dom are Montazel inhabitants and already known within the group.
Gorgeous night!! Much joy in discovering connections -
we'll be doing something very similar tonight, probably.
May 2, 2026
Charlottes birthday
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| Billy and Jo with the birthday babe |
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| Rose and Ole-Bendik in the background |
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| Gordon, failing to evade camera |
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| Clare, Atmo, Billy and Jo |
April 30, 2026
Love Fest
Teresa and Didier married yesterday - with an audience drawn from across the world -
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| Christian |
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| Teresa talking about marriage - |
To love is to risk not being loved in return.To trust is to risk being broken.But not to love or trust is to be already dead inside.
April 27, 2026
Sunday afternoon
The mornings can be a little grey but they blossom... well, so far. None
of us know what's in store.
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| John playing an invisible clavichord |
Missed the vide grenier (everyone said it was merde, dealers and crottes), missed the harp festival, caught the market - life is good.
Frantically burying the bodies now, Bob due back tomorrow.
April 25, 2026
seven years
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| Maryann, Terry and Kaye |
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| Norbert and Maryanne |
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| Louise and Mike |
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| Yvonne, Rose; Tim at the other end of the table! |
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| Maryann, Terry, Kaye and Bev |
Our hosts were amazing, catering to the cantankerous among us and constantly making sure all were fed and watered... and that the conversation never faltered (as if!) Here's joy to their next seven years.
April 19, 2026
Peter Dunn turns 80 -
Having battled ill-health for ages, Pete showed us how well he is nowadays... fabulous birthday party which I failed to photograph well, being over excited by it all -
I've made some pix black and white because it makes them look better but it was a very colourful night. (Pete was in red.)
It was packed! Which was as well as there was a mighty amount of food and drink. Many friends old and new. Wish I'd been paying more attention and taken some better snaps!
April 16, 2026
La Ravito hits the spot
Bob and I threw caution to the winds and lunched at La Ravito in Couisa yesterday. We are both agreed that the food, ambiance, space and all that is smashing - which is noteworthy as we rarely agree on anything :)
And look! Elaine...
April 14, 2026
Esperaza warm again
April 11, 2026
April dinner

April 10, 2026
Thursday in April -
Sad to say goodbye to Richard and Lynne, who have transformed our courtyard... so we went from coffee at the Argentinian café to the Tibetan takeaway which is a bit done-up and has new folk in charge. That did us for lunch. Hung about till Vox Vallis did their practice in the MJC and shared a meal with their appreciative public - great day :)![]() |
| Vox Vallis |
April 9, 2026
Lingering Immortal
Ole-Bendik is 80something today - 85/6 maybe - and the tribe waylaid him in the station café. He was inundated with cards and gifts and generally fussed over, as befits the occasion. Those of us that are spared expect to be doing the same for the next decade.
April 8, 2026
April 7, 2026
Easter Monday
Richard and Lynne who have always come here in August, when the heat is intense, are revising their traditional schedule.
We spent the Sunday having lunch in the creperie with Richard and Lynne and Siggy and Laura, and the theologically curious went to mass in Couiza. The church is spectacular, restored within an inch of its life; not a centimetre unpainted; you can see how the folk of these parts thought a posh house should look. Glorious!! Here's Venus (we think) early evening on Easter Sunday. Just lovely.April 4, 2026
changes in the air
Below is brunch from the day before at our own extraordinary Relais Occitan in the square - Louise and Norbert -
and Kathy and Kenny!!! Whom we expect to see a lot more of, now they've bought a splendid house here.














































