- continuing where www.tilling-sur-aude.blogspot.com left off, with gossip and updates from a small French town
June 24, 2026
waiting for the end
June 20, 2026
and the heat goes on...
This being Sunday I should be hurrying to the market before the heat kicks in. There's a vide grenier by the river - no chance!!
June 17, 2026
HOME
I'm back in Esperaza with a huge sigh of relief - though travel does do something for the mind, especially travelling by public transport where people can't get away from you. Met a group from Uzbekistan (who could only talk through an interpreter) who were charming and thoughtful and a man from Eritrea, who undertook to educate me about his country and Islam. Long train journeys plus long bus rides (= East Midlands to York) -and of course the plane flight- have given me enough info to fuel my thinking for weeks.
So what's new here??
Early morning, before the real heat, strange doings in the square - it seems that they are pulling away the paving around our trees to give them some space, and filling in the gaps with this dubious gravel.Guessing the benches will be back soon - maybe they already are, too hot to go and look.June 7, 2026
Aftermath
It was a good market, of course. Sunshine, music, friendship... which makes it hard to leave, a close family death has catapulted me to England to be with my tribe. Back in a week by which time I hope our seats will be restored to us.
June 2, 2026
tomorrows excitement
June 1, 2026
Don Tait exhibition and a guinguette visit
Here's Don at his vernissage this evening - filling up with art lovers as Bob and l shimmied off somewhat early, being old. He is selling!! Delicate, ethereal drawings full of a sense of space and of the reality of plien air, plus acrylics and oils he has worked up from the drawings. Would have been nice to have stayed, especially as many mates were milling about the bar :) The show is on for a week, at Alet-les-bains.Half way home we realised that hunger and thirst had kicked in. Remembered hearing about le ventriloque,* down a track between Intermarche and Arcadie. Keep going past the lorrys and the old cars and there on a little mound is a guinguette, a wooden shack selling rather good nosh, drinks and all that. Set by the river, comfy old furniture, friendly staff...
They play marvelous music too... it took an age to make our food, hurrah! We sat in comfort and enjoyed it all. They don't close until 10.00pm. We had to leave for parrot care or we'd still be there but we'll get back for an evening sometime. Literary chums; there is a poetry and story telling evening (in French) on Saturday night
*This is a joke, it seems. Ventriloque is french for ventriloquist but also means a rumbling tummy.
May 28, 2026
Thursdays frolics
Happy start to the day with Claudine, back from her month away in a health-giving place, being exercised and massaged and generally given a good seeing-to. Looking great on it. May 26, 2026
sun - heat wave in May
Its official, a Canicule - and the first warnings ever in the month of May. Breakfast TV very excited.
May 24, 2026
Festival des hermits
And here's an exciting diary date...
May 23, 2026
Bon V O-B

May 22, 2026
Louis Fernandez RIP
Feel very privileged to have known him and his family.
Funeral on Tuesday starting in the church, 16 .30 h , thence to the family tomb in the graveyard.
May 18, 2026
Norwegfranco
Market blossomed in the lovely weather, felt vicariously proud of it all.
Everyone goes today - John, Jean, Maddy and Grace - a great silence will descend.
May 17, 2026
Family Snaps
Last night in dull weather at the Poulet en Velo; Sebastien had the foresight to erect a tent for the dinners by the lake. We were all exhausted from the Artistes a Suivre tour round Puivert, Chalabre and Rivel though not as exhausted as Caroze whom l met this morning and who did the same tour - on a bicycle! May 15, 2026
Follow that artist-
Artistes a suivre has begun its open studio and exhibition programme and there will be photos from me later... in the meantime, if you are doing the rounds, don't miss Michael Bosworths expo in Rouvenac where his widow Barbara has hung his amazing work.
And on Sunday in Esperaza don't miss Gracies vide grenier at the garage next to La Chapaire. A small amount of her (small) work will be on show.
Been batting about with the family so no new photos of note.
Have a good Assentation holiday weekend. Enjoy the art -
May 12, 2026
family fest
John, Bobs brother, and his partner Jean arrived yesterday with Maddie, Jeans grandchild - so with Ziggy (the missing brother Phils widow) we tipped off to Couiza in the rain - had an excellent light show :) and far too much food. todays weather is keeping us guessing. Sunshine at the moment.
May 8, 2026
bye bye for the moment
We all meet again in September at the Metaphorum conference in Manchester UK. We were entertained by many things last night, but this song may have won the round -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BDXKO7-KC0&list=RD4BDXKO7-KC0&start_radio=1Stafford Beer
May 5, 2026
Later, in the bar...
Garrick Filewood, Angela Espinosa and John Walker have been whirlwinding round Europe filming a movie about my papa Stafford, who was born 100 years ago this year. They are staying here for a few days.
Our Gracie is already staying here and is not fazed by cybernetics; Fanny and Dom are Montazel inhabitants and already known within the group.
Gorgeous night!! Much joy in discovering connections -
we'll be doing something very similar tonight, probably.
May 2, 2026
Charlottes birthday
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| Billy and Jo with the birthday babe |
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| Rose and Ole-Bendik in the background |
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| Gordon, failing to evade camera |
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| Clare, Atmo, Billy and Jo |
April 30, 2026
Love Fest
Teresa and Didier married yesterday - with an audience drawn from across the world -
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| Christian |
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| Teresa talking about marriage - |
To love is to risk not being loved in return.To trust is to risk being broken.But not to love or trust is to be already dead inside.














































